Simple advice on getting your ex girlfriend back
You and your ex have a lot in common. This includes the first eye contact, first date, first kiss and first hug. They have been there for each other for better or worse. So, don’t hold anything back because you think she might think you are desperate and turn off by turning your feelings into wanting to have her back. For me, if someone has feelings for someone and doesn’t take any actions on it him, it’s really sad. It doesn’t matter if she rejects you, you have to face her and all this is in your power to get her back. Otherwise, you may very well spend the rest of your life wondering what could have happened.
You should be aware of some proven ways to get your ex-girlfriend back:
1) Tell her you love her
You can read many magazines or online articles about breaking up advice from now on, and most of them ask you to ignore your ex and not call them much, but the simple truth is if you do this, you may end up too lose. For some women certain psychological techniques might work, and some may not. Your reaction is related to your story. No matter what you read in Pause articles, you are the only one who best understands where they stand and why they might react one way or the other. This means that methods of approach should also be different. My experience tells me one way to get back together (depending on the circumstances) is to tell her that you still have feelings for her. Be open.
3) Be a man and let her know what you think and feel
If you want your ex back, tell her exactly how you feel. Whatever you do, you must avoid a fight like fire. Don’t avoid talking to her openly about anything and everything, but don’t do anything to get in her way. You can even have a cheat sheet to remember for when you’re going to meet her.
4) Prove your love for her
Action counts as speaking louder than words. Every word that comes out of your mouth must be backed up by concrete action.
Time is valuable. Appreciate everyone in your life and treat every day as if it were your last. In this way one could live life fully.
I know sometimes getting through your girlfriend may sound like an uphill battle, but it’s not. It depends on how you see things. If you think it is hard, it would be hard for you to achieve your goal. Although illogical, if you think it’s easy than getting back with her will be a piece of cake.
Some additional tips you should consider when meeting your ex:
Tip #1 – Change your mindset
To win for you, you have to feel like a winner. Although it sounds like what hurts you the most, there are a lot of far worst things that could happen. This is easy to fix as long as you are relentless about it and have a well thought out plan.
Tip #2 – Feel good
A positive mental attitude can and will influence everyone around you. Your ex-girlfriend will surely notice and will be intrigued. They won’t run out of fresh ideas to get on your back and you will eventually get their back.
Tip #3 – Be contemptuous of the changes in your life
Just you need the back won’t be enough. If you fail to become contemptuous of yourself, rejection could very well destroy your life forever. You need to be made both ways with a smile on your face. This is the only way
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